Last year, 2021, was, G-d willing, the worst year of my life. I still have considerable moments of debilitating sadness and despair, but it’s getting better inch by inch.

This video is one of hundreds from last year of talks with my Dad. My dad is a phenomenal man and person, but, unfortunately, he’s no longer with me. He, too, was taken from me by my sister, via very careful calculation, as she did with my mother and eventually, recruited and swayed sympathizers (narcissists notoriously play the victim of their victim) with, as mentioned previously, gaslighting, triangulation, manipulation, isolation (of their victims), lots of cunning and other wizardry. Do you know how Kristen managed that? Well, I can’t tell you for certain, for the tricks of narcissists are fiercely guarded much like the Magician’s Code of Secrets. But I can tell you this much–last time I saw my dad and step-mom, she told me that Kristen told her, “I tried ever-so-hard to convince my mom to love Kelley”. Oh. Okay. Well if that’s the case, then she should split the inheritance given to her by the mother we share, or, better yet, divide it up equally among the four of us, which she should do anyway. It’s the “rite” thing.

Kristen will give you a song and dance about the 3 of us–that we alienated ourselves from my mom. This is absolutely, unequivocally and categorically untrue. My mother only wanted Kristen around, and Kristen made 100% sure it stayed that way, or, possibly if not very likely, Kristen wanted to have my mom all to herself. I have convincing evidence coming soon. Either way, the three of us got fucked, through every conceivable orifice, and it is and was even more painful than it sounds. Look. See? Painful…

Here is a link to a very easy article (not at all clinical) if you’re interested in a simplified explanation of some traits and tactics of a narcissist.