Love Bomb Stage of Narcissistic Abuse Cycle. This is early-ish 2023 pre-move-In, mostly. This stage is also called, and/or is comprised of, euphoric stage, mirroring, and future-faking:

This is June 2024, well into the devaluation stage. I’m talking to a psychic medium. This is the portion where my dead mom (who was also a narcissist, as well as my sister) is telling the medium to tell me that I’m with a bad man. I already knew this. I just didn’t realize that he has Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder. I knew something was very wrong. I was scared. Alone. Nowhere to go. Nowhere to turn. That’s how they do it and that’s how they have it. It’s purposeful and calculated to keep you trapped and stuck. In March of 2024, I met with my rabbi’s wife to pick up Purim cookies to deliver to the very few Jews who live in the area. I was obviously stressed out. I didn’t go into detail but I remember telling her, “I think something is wrong with him. I think he has a mental illness.” I was confused and terrified but I couldn’t pin-point it. Narcissistic abusers want it this way.

This is October 2024, even further into the devaluation stage. At this point, I still did not go to Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I called it, at the time, emotional abuse and even often excused it as cultural and socioeconomic difference. But I knew I was in danger in one way or another. The next day after this video, I went to the domestic violence organization in the town I was now in. I asked for help. Begged. I was terrified and remained that way for many more months.

These next videos are when I knew. It clicked. Narcissistic Personality Disorder and, for good measure, Borderline Personality Disorder. Below is the text I sent to my abuser which put him in a narcissistic rage. March 2025:

Narcissistic Rage–blame-shifting, projection and DARVO (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender). I think this textbook narcissistic behavior has more names, but I’ll start with the above.

Very early July 2025–a couple of weeks before fleeing this most hideous heinous narcissistic abuser. In the video below, I tried very hard to get in the car and leave the driveway before he caught up with me. I was going to the storage facility to arrange for storage because my exit and escape was planned and coming soon.

I have dozens if not hundreds more videos and audio of this demonic creature’s narcissistic abuse. It’s sick. It’s devastating. These creatures are miserable and destructive.

Check back periodically for more. I hope it helps someone. 🌼